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书名：Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man 像女人一样行动像男人一样思考
作者：Steve Harvey
出版社名称：Amistad
出版时间：2014
语种：英文
ISBN：9780062359971
商品尺寸：13.5 x 1.7 x 20.3 cm
包装：平装
页数：290 （以实物为准）
Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man《像女人一样行动像男人一样思考》的作者是美国著名主持人史蒂夫·哈维。自2009年出版以来就大受好评，荣登《纽约时报》畅销书排行榜首位。在这本书里，哈维从一个男人的视角来告诉女人，男人通常是怎么思考问题的，他们对女人有怎样的期待等问题。2012北美票房冠军电影《像男人一样思考》也是根据此书改编而成。
推荐理由：
1.关于如何建立良好的两性关系的“心理学”书籍，继《男人来自火星，女人来自金星》之后又一风靡全球的畅销书，尤其适合女性阅读；
2.新版，增加了第四部分的内容，笔调幽默，语言通俗易懂，阅读难度不大；
3.英文原版，印刷清晰，字体较大，纸质护眼，阅读舒适。
An international bestseller and with translations in more than thirty languages, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is the definitive relationship guide for women.
The #1 New York Times bestseller in a newly revised, expanded edition. With over3 million copies sold, ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN has become a bestseller around the world. In this this exciting expanded edition, Steve shares even more relationship wisdom for any problem you might face. Is your guy a mummy’s boy who prefers spending time with her over you? What should you know about being a wife, before you say I DO? Steve provides the answers for all these questions, and more. New material also includes: How to maintain spice in your relationship; 8 sure-fire ways to keep your cool when his ex shows up; A test for you and your partner, to determine if you are actually ready for marriage; A 90-day abstinence calendar, along with advice for making it through this important trial period. Harvey’s advice is always spot-on and more often than not very funny. But behind the humour is a sincere desire to help women understand men. With liberal use of his own adventures in love and courtship, ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN is an honest, compelling, and realistic examination of how men think about love and sex and what women need to know so that they can set realistic expectations of the men in their life.
在情感关系中，女人比男人更缺乏安全感，原因是她不知道男人在想什么。在婚姻生活中，女人比男人更被动，原因是她不了解男人的行事方式。关于恋爱，关于婚姻，关于两性，女人一旦有了困惑，就会去问其他女人的意见。她们中很少有人知道，真正的答案在异性朋友那儿，因为只有男人才了解男人。《像女人一样行动，像男人一样思考》是男人对男人的深度解读。作者从一个男人的视角来告诉女人，男人通常是怎么思考问题的，他们对女人有怎样的期待；以及女人应该怎样解读男人，怎样行动才符合男人的期待。只有像男人一样思考，女人才能真正了解男人，走出情感困惑；只有像真正的女人一样行动，女人才能让自己和男人都站在正确的位置，经营好两性关系。
Steve Harvey can’t count the number of impressive women he’s met over the years—the many incredible women who can run a business, have three kids, maintain a household in tiptop shape, and chair a church group all at the same time. So, when it comes to relationships, why can’t these same women figure out what makes men commit? According to Steve, it’s because they’re asking other women for advice when they should be going directly to the source. In this expanded edition, Steve includes an added section of all new advice, with tips on dealing with your partner’s exes, spicing up your relationship, ensuring you’re ready for that walk down the aisle, and much more.
Sometimes funny, often unflinchingly direct, but always truthful, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is a book you must listen to if you want to understand how men think when it comes to relationships, intimacy, and love.
史蒂夫·哈维，著名喜剧演员和主持人，从20世纪80年代开始拍单人喜剧，1996年～2002年成功主持了《史蒂夫·哈维秀》，这在当时引起了巨大的轰动，并获得美国有色人种促进协会奖。1997年，哈维因拍摄著名的喜剧《喜剧之王》，被冠以“喜剧之王”的称号。现在，史蒂夫·哈维是美国著名广播节目《史蒂夫·哈维早场》的主持人，每天大概有七百万的听众收听他的节目。
Steve Harvey is the host of the syndicatedSteve Harvey talk show and Family Feud, and TheSteve Harvey Moring Show on the radio. He is the international bestselling author of Staight Talk, No Chaser and aphilanthropist and founder of the Steve and Marjorie Harvey Foundation.
Introduction
Everything You Needto Know About Menand Relationships Is Right Here
THE MIND-SET OF A MAN
1What Drives Men
2Our Love Isn’t Like Your Love
3The Three Things Every Man Needs: Support, Loyalty, and the Cookie
4“We Needto Talk”, and Other Words That Make Men Run for Cover
WHY MEN DO WHAT THEY DO
5First Things First: He Wants to Sleep with You
6Sports Fish vs. Keepers: How Men Distinguish Between the Marrying Types and the Playthings
7Mama’s Boys
8Why Men Cheat
THE PLAYBOOK: HOW TO WIN THE GAME
9Men Respect Standards—Get Some
10The Five Questions Every Woman Should Ask Before She Gets in Too Deep
11The Ninety-Day Rule: Getting the Respect You Deserve
12If He’s Meeting the Kids After You Decide He’s “the One,” It’s Too Late
13Strong, Independent—and Lonely—Women
14 How to Get the Ring
FROM HIS WOMAN TO HIS WIFE: WINNING HIS HEART FOR LIFETIME
15 Managing the Ex-Files: How to Keep Your Cool When His Past Arrives
16 Making the First Ninety Days Count
17 Your Career, His Ambitions: How to Make Your Dreams Work Together
18 When the Cookie Crumbles: Put the Spice Back into Your Relationship
19 Is It Time to Put a Ring on It?: A 10-step Test Before Your Trip to the Jeweler
20 Avoiding a Family Feud: Navigating His Family
21 Quick Answers to the Questions You’ve Always Wanted to Ask
Acknowledgments
What Drives Men
There is no truer statement: men are simple. Get this into your heart first, and everything you learn about us in this books will begin to fall into place. Once you get that down, you’ll have to understand a few essential truths: men are driven by who they are, what they do, and how much they make. No matter if a man is a CEO, a CON, or both, everything he does is filtered through his title (who he is), how he gets that title (what he does), and the reward he gets for the effort (how much he makes). These three things make up the basic DNA of manhood—the three accomplishments every man must achieve before he feels like he’s truly fulfilled his destiny as a man. And until he’s achieve his goal in those three areas, the man you’re dating, committed to, or married to will too busy to focus on you.
Think about it: from a moment a boy is born, the first thing everyone around him starts doing telling him what he must do to be a real man. He is taught to be tough—to wrestle, climb, get up without crying, not let anyone push him around.
