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      string(2627) "人生建议：一定要学会翻脸

你是不是也遇到过这样的情况：
自己很喜欢的东西，朋友看上了，直接拿了，自己为了维护关系，只能装大方，最后内耗自己。
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最近看了一本书，这从这位奶奶超厉害的人生中，我找到了不内耗的方法：
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学会翻脸。
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《你不必是一朵花》
✍理微尘
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我更加喜欢这本书封面上的这句话，“我的外婆，从不内耗”。
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作者的外婆是一个很有趣的人，也是一个很有力量的女性。
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27岁，开设女性学校，帮助女性提升谋生的技能。
48岁，反抗不合理的婚姻；
58岁，帮助有需要的女性，提升她们的谋生技能；
86岁，帮钟点工阿姨打官司。
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从她做的事情中，能感受到这位外婆内心超级有力量，只有有力量的人，才能散发自己的光芒，照耀更多的人。
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说到这位外婆不内耗，我很喜欢书中的这个故事。
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亲戚H夫妇去外婆家玩，没有带礼物，并且在吃饭的时候，随意打开外婆的酒柜，挑了一瓶最贵的酒，打开就喝了。
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看到这里，我都想骂人了，后辈上门都不带礼物，还随意打开外婆的柜子，真的是很不懂礼貌。
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外婆的做法也很解气，在送别H夫妇的时候，特意穿得很朴素，拎了蛇皮袋，里面装满了树枝（这树枝对H夫妇的父母真的有药用价值），在车站大声和H夫妇说，一定要带回去给他们的妈妈。
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从作者描述的文字中，都能看出H夫妇的尴尬，因为H夫妇穿着像电影的人一样精致，手上却拎着很丑的蛇皮袋，特别逗。
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外婆在这件事之后，也提到了她的处事原则：“只吃一次亏”。
先相信对方，但是要观察对方是不是值得交往，如果不值得交往，那么就远离他们，也就是和他们翻脸，不需要顾忌太多的情面。
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这种做事方法真的是让人浑身通畅。
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不仅仅是这个故事，书中还有更多不内耗的故事，我摘录了外婆不内耗的金句，分享给大家，希望2025年的我们摆脱内耗，置顶自己的感受。
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活得像自己，才是对生命最好的馈赠。
内耗就如一块橡皮，在理想和现实之间反复摩擦，最后擦掉了真正的自己。
现在，放松下来，不要再欺负自己了。
无论什么时候，人都要靠实力说话。成长是最好的复仇。
有时候别人让你善良大度一点，往往是因为你已经是被选中的那个牺牲品，这只是为了堵你的嘴，投向你思想的武器，千万要清醒。"
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自己很喜欢的东西，朋友看上了，直接拿了，自己为了维护关系，只能装大方，最后内耗自己。
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学会翻脸。
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《你不必是一朵花》
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我更加喜欢这本书封面上的这句话，“我的外婆，从不内耗”。
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27岁，开设女性学校，帮助女性提升谋生的技能。
48岁，反抗不合理的婚姻；
58岁，帮助有需要的女性，提升她们的谋生技能；
86岁，帮钟点工阿姨打官司。
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说到这位外婆不内耗，我很喜欢书中的这个故事。
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亲戚H夫妇去外婆家玩，没有带礼物，并且在吃饭的时候，随意打开外婆的酒柜，挑了一瓶最贵的酒，打开就喝了。
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外婆的做法也很解气，在送别H夫妇的时候，特意穿得很朴素，拎了蛇皮袋，里面装满了树枝（这树枝对H夫妇的父母真的有药用价值），在车站大声和H夫妇说，一定要带回去给他们的妈妈。
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从作者描述的文字中，都能看出H夫妇的尴尬，因为H夫妇穿着像电影的人一样精致，手上却拎着很丑的蛇皮袋，特别逗。
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先相信对方，但是要观察对方是不是值得交往，如果不值得交往，那么就远离他们，也就是和他们翻脸，不需要顾忌太多的情面。
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这种做事方法真的是让人浑身通畅。
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不仅仅是这个故事，书中还有更多不内耗的故事，我摘录了外婆不内耗的金句，分享给大家，希望2025年的我们摆脱内耗，置顶自己的感受。
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活得像自己，才是对生命最好的馈赠。
内耗就如一块橡皮，在理想和现实之间反复摩擦，最后擦掉了真正的自己。
现在，放松下来，不要再欺负自己了。
无论什么时候，人都要靠实力说话。成长是最好的复仇。
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